a disservice right ” mentality ... a “ either / or ” dichotomyhelped createtoxic shame in the first place
physical , emotional , verbal or sexual abuse(passive) could have been caused byThis toxic shame
when i think of my parents past verbal abusecausedmy toxic shame
abuse , neglect , dysfunctional family relationships , or trauma(passive) is often caused byToxic shame
that toxic shame starts with the caregivers , any abuse , neglect , deprivation or humiliationcausestoxic shame
severe early childhood abuse by both parents and perpetuated by toxic relationships I chose and codependently participated in(passive) created bytoxic shame
the culturally accepted norms of perfectionismcreatetoxic shame
Toxic blamecreatestoxic shame
Unhealthy guiltleadsto toxic shame
an internal feeling of being imperfect(passive) is caused byToxic shame
Instinctive internal feelings of shame when followed by punishmentcan leadto toxic shame
3 Ways to Deal with Toxic Shame Depressioncan leadto toxic shame
In particular , the long term effect on children who may blame themselves ,resultsin toxic shame
doubt and fear , cynicism and selfishness , sin and self - hatredleadsto toxic shame
This complication - CORRUPTION - CONTAMINATIONhas causedtoo much TOXIC SHAME
a toxic mix of emotionsmay createtoxic shame
the feelings of worthlessnessare createdfrom the toxic shame
criticizing someoneresultsin toxic shame
the triggerssetoff toxic shame
when we are accused , punished , abandoned , humiliated , or treated with contempt and made to take accountability for something we were never responsible for(passive) is createdToxic shame
This mind setcan causeyears of toxic shame
Your inner criticoriginatedfrom toxic shame
so many different types of harm by others that one might think there is not a single option that can help(passive) is caused byToxic shame
constant parental neglect and rejection(passive) can also be created byToxic shame
abusive childhoods(passive) is caused byMajor toxic shame
Unprocessed traumacan leadto toxic shame
Bullyingcan createtoxic shame
Continued abandonmentcreatesa toxic shame
Family secretsleadto toxic shame
SAcan causeToxic Shame
Big " T " and " little t " traumas evoke shame - based responses Interpersonal traumas or chronic rejectioncan createtoxic shame
Explaincan leadto toxic shame
unmet(passive) created by• toxic shame
maltreatment(passive) caused bytoxic shame ,
who points outleadsto toxic shame
self - blame(passive) created bythe toxic shame
false narratives projected by abusive parents that they are somehow ‘ bad ’ or undeserving of love and protectionleadingto ‘ toxic shame
Lonelinesscan triggertoxic shame
Someone To Hide From Their Own Purpose?Rewriting Your Valentine 's Day Story!HollywoodCan ... CauseSomeone To Hide From Their Own Purpose?Rewriting Your Valentine 's Day Story!Hollywood
a deep sense that we are unloved and unaccepted because of something we ’ve donecreatesa deep sense that we are unloved and unaccepted because of something we ’ve done
in going back to the abuser to find closureresultingin going back to the abuser to find closure
in childhoodoriginatingin childhood
people cancer or mesotheliomaare ... causingpeople cancer or mesothelioma
one to only feel bad , but to believe that they ’re inherently badcausesone to only feel bad , but to believe that they ’re inherently bad
a disastrous internal belief system ... that ruined the best years of my life ... until I accidentally discovered that my life even existed when I was in my early thirties , and then only by sheer accidentcreateda disastrous internal belief system ... that ruined the best years of my life ... until I accidentally discovered that my life even existed when I was in my early thirties , and then only by sheer accident
Addictions and bullying(passive) are often caused byAddictions and bullying
to addictions of all formsleadsto addictions of all forms
to attachments and addictionscan leadto attachments and addictions
to anxiety thoughcan contributeto anxiety though
to the physical , emotional , and sexual abuse of others or of oneselfleadsto the physical , emotional , and sexual abuse of others or of oneself
to the death of true selfleadsto the death of true self
the fallout we call depressioncreatesthe fallout we call depression
so many people to get stuck in destructive addictionscausesso many people to get stuck in destructive addictions
to literal cancer and diseasecan leadto literal cancer and disease
a Life of Freedom ( 8/4/14Is Preventinga Life of Freedom ( 8/4/14
depression ( and all the pieces that go with all the pieces ... because all the pieces hosts a whole cocktail of biological shutdown , trapped anger and aggressioncausesdepression ( and all the pieces that go with all the pieces ... because all the pieces hosts a whole cocktail of biological shutdown , trapped anger and aggression
you to avoid people and hide awaylikecausesyou to avoid people and hide awaylike
“ human doings ” , people who must do to be okaycreates“ human doings ” , people who must do to be okay
a person to go into hiding ... as I talked about in the above paragraphcausesa person to go into hiding ... as I talked about in the above paragraph
to everything from eating disorders and addiction to low self - esteem , anxiety , guilt and codependencycan leadto everything from eating disorders and addiction to low self - esteem , anxiety , guilt and codependency
chronic ‘ shame anxiety ’ ( i.e. , the fear of being shamed ) and shame spirals can cause depressioncauseschronic ‘ shame anxiety ’ ( i.e. , the fear of being shamed ) and shame spirals can cause depression
to curing one 's SA for those with TSwill leadto curing one 's SA for those with TS
you to see yourself as unlovable , alienated from yourself and others , questioning your identity , emotionally dead , thus , beyond help and healingcausesyou to see yourself as unlovable , alienated from yourself and others , questioning your identity , emotionally dead , thus , beyond help and healing
us to respond inappropriately when people lose joy to be with uscausesus to respond inappropriately when people lose joy to be with us
chronic “ shame anxiety ” — the fear of experiencing shamecauseschronic “ shame anxiety ” — the fear of experiencing shame
to global warming ( o yes it does ) and asthma , cancer and other lung problemscontributesto global warming ( o yes it does ) and asthma , cancer and other lung problems
you to avoid people and hide away , like I did in my first year of universitycausesyou to avoid people and hide away , like I did in my first year of university
to problems with false guilt and self blame , perfectionism , and intimate relationships , such as codependency and love addictioncan leadto problems with false guilt and self blame , perfectionism , and intimate relationships , such as codependency and love addiction
narcissistic or multiple personality disorders , bipolar disorder , obsessive compulsive disorder , addiction issues and morecan createnarcissistic or multiple personality disorders , bipolar disorder , obsessive compulsive disorder , addiction issues and more
feelings of inadequacy and lack of emotional and intellectual safetycreatesfeelings of inadequacy and lack of emotional and intellectual safety
humiliationcreateshumiliation
Someone To Fear IntimacyCauseSomeone To Fear Intimacy
within uscreateswithin us
crippling feelings of being unworthy , unlovable and defectiveprovokescrippling feelings of being unworthy , unlovable and defective
an extremely harsh inner critic that is absolutely merciless towards oneselfcreatesan extremely harsh inner critic that is absolutely merciless towards oneself
a person to suicideprovokesa person to suicide
to self - blame and guilteasily leadsto self - blame and guilt
real damage to our psychological well beingcan causereal damage to our psychological well being