standards which are so high that it is often impossible for them to reach their own expectationsto setstandards which are so high that it is often impossible for them to reach their own expectations

unrelenting social standards that their child feels unable to meetmay also setunrelenting social standards that their child feels unable to meet

impossibly high standards for themselves and then fail to achieve themsetimpossibly high standards for themselves and then fail to achieve them

unrealistic academic standards for themselves and are constantly revising their paperssetunrealistic academic standards for themselves and are constantly revising their papers

to serious problems involving neurotic behavior and underachievementcan leadto serious problems involving neurotic behavior and underachievement

to difficultiesleadto difficulties

in larger Perfectionismmay resultin larger Perfectionism

in larger improvements than pure CBT self - helpmay resultin larger improvements than pure CBT self - help

the childwill influencethe child

in larger improvements than pure CBT self - helpmay resultin larger improvements than pure CBT self - help

to lower confidence in mothers and greater stress in fathersledto lower confidence in mothers and greater stress in fathers

their behaviormay discovertheir behavior

clear standards for their childrenwill setclear standards for their children

such high standardssetsuch high standards

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to self - sabotage andcan causeto self - sabotage and

stress for readercausestress for reader

his childhas provokedhis child

a switch in birth ordercan causea switch in birth order

you to procrastinatecauseyou to procrastinate

sibling to isolate themselvescausesibling to isolate themselves

from the belief that society expects the individual to be perfectresultingfrom the belief that society expects the individual to be perfect

them to believe that there 's only one way to do something or to " get it rightcausesthem to believe that there 's only one way to do something or to " get it right

in this circumstancediscoverin this circumstance

highsethigh

to high achievementledto high achievement

in high achievement andresultsin high achievement and

their children needless worry over something that is n't a very big dealare causingtheir children needless worry over something that is n't a very big deal

a person up to be disappointed ... given that achieving perfection consistently is impossibleseta person up to be disappointed ... given that achieving perfection consistently is impossible

the same for their daughter ... complicating her being honest and baringhave causedthe same for their daughter ... complicating her being honest and baring

to never - ending email threads , revisions , and rechecksoften leadsto never - ending email threads , revisions , and rechecks

more anxiety than pain and anxietycausesmore anxiety than pain and anxiety

to doubt and self - criticismleadto doubt and self - criticism

to doubt and self - criticism when things go wrongleadto doubt and self - criticism when things go wrong

to anxietyleadingto anxiety

Many of us(passive) have been strongly influenced byMany of us

extremely high standardssetextremely high standards

standards(passive) set bystandards

to failurewould leadto failure

a lotcontributesa lot